Sandra, I'm a Church of God Regional Bishop. I have relatives in Oakland that I've never met. Chances are, we are related. My son is a Police Lt. in Tracy and told me about you. I want you and your family to know that my wife and I are praying for you and your family. If your need anything, I am available to do whatever I can. Call us at 323-899-0240 God Bless You, Bishop Telllis